
Have no fear.
There are many perspectives and rights that have been discussed on the issue of the non-discrimination ordinance for the city of Anchorage. The position I’ve been most vocal about is the rights of the people in the community to express how they feel- however they are doing it. What should be emphasized as important here is not the fact that one could go to hell for “choosing” to be gay, or that one is determined a “hater” because you wear a red shirt. What is important here is that our community recognizes where we are in the evolution of this state, this frontier state, we call Alaska.
In looking for inspiration for this piece, I consulted the Alaska Constitution, which surprised me with this last sentence in the Introduction: “Please read it and understand its continuing dedication to you as the governor, not to be governed.”, signed John B. “Jack” Coghill.
Ah, ha! This blog is to Think Alaska. Lucky for this state, the founders of the constitution were wise enough to understand what it meant to own it. This is where I asked myself: Why do we need to pass any governing document for the people to do the things we should already inherently be doing?
I like to approach differences in an unconventional way. I like to approach differences first with common ground. As a commission based media sales rep, my days are filled with people upping the standard, asking me to jeopardize my morals and ethics, people request I match the actions of my competitors. I am asked every day to differentiate business people from each other. I am asked to stand out above the other 1000 media sales reps in the market and make my clients successful. What I have learned is by focusing on the sameness in clients and within the industry, I can earn the respect needed to elevate any opportunity.
What is the sameness in this situation? People, take off your blinders. This is not a matter of personal choice and discretion. This is a consideration for the quality of life for your neighbors, our community, and our state. Being gay or being Baptist doesn’t make you different from me. It makes you the same because you agree you have the choice to do what moves you- what makes you feel good.
The basic premise of the Prevo movement is religion. Now, religion can open up a can of worms; if you are going to bring God into any argument, you need to kind of know the guy. I was introduced to him long ago from my single mother in the Midwest. God was her man. God was the person that allowed her to put food on the table and dress herself everyday and work for her two young daughters. God gave her the strength to smile and teach her two young daughters that life and people are good. “God is always watching you”, she would say, and I always thought that was a little creepy. Nevertheless, God was a big part of my life, and I still value the lessons I was taught during that time.
I remember a magnet that clung to the refrigerator with two people walking hand in hand on a rustic orange sunset beach with this verse:
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. . .And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. - excerpts from 1 Corinthians 13:4-13I could continue with numerous other passages from the Bible that reiterate the importance of love and compassion and humanity, but you already know them. Perhaps, God intended for this knowledge to be a part of the physical make-up of our bodies. Perhaps it is simply the energy of being that allow us to exercise the highest level of emotion and compassion.
I’m an obvious supporter of the coined term “live and let live”. I live in Alaska because the people living here are in constant motion to create the quality of life they want. I think it is easy to forget that every right we have in America is a special right. They are all special rights that even in a time where the nation’s reputation can be disputed, people across the globe still seek to be on this land because of the right to freedom we all agree is so important.
So, I ask me this:
If, we as Alaskans agree that we would rather be governors than be governed, AND
If, we as humans agree that love and compassion is what gives purpose to life, AND
If, we as Americans believe that our freedom is a special right, THEN…
What is the big deal?
Our community is filled with interesting, forward thinking, innovative, and highly intelligent people, who do not need an ordinance to tell us what is right and what is not. I believe it is unfortunate and short sighted for people to deny their basic human instinct of love for one another. It is also unfortunate for people to rely on politicians of any kind to enforce what rights are for any individual. As humans, we already understand.
While I would like to see the non-discrimination ordinance be passed to include “sexual orientation” it is not because it is going to change the way I treat people. And the opposite is also true. But I believe our leaders have the power to embrace love for our diverse community and make a statement to other communities that we are in fact, an owner state.
As a woman, as a Caucasian, as an Iowan, as a young person, as a Chevy driver, as a Mac user with a Blackberry, as a spiritual being, I will always encounter someone who has a problem with who I am. And that’s okay. I love you anyway.